There's Postgres with pgvector extension.
There are probably more performant options, but for universality, you are best off going with a popular SQL DB that has vector extensions or support. SQLLite is another option if you want even more portability.
I haven't looked into SQLite and such, but many of the other SQL type of options were not good last I checked. And it takes quite a bit of effort to dig through them because all of these will show research that puts themselves as the best lol.