This is a keeping up with the joneses tale. People with flashier spending habits often have rotten savings habits. Never judge yourself by what other people show you.
Management companies in different states/countries work wonders to drop your tax and increase money you can spend. Even small guys $1mil rev are doing things like a Dubai management company nesting.
article hinted at it via the IP onshoring talk.
Once you have enough disposable incoming, you can start to pay accountants to do money magic for you.