If you are running Windows try holding shift when you click the shutdown menu item, it’ll force it to do a full power down rather than suspending.
If you are running Windows try holding shift when you click the shutdown menu item, it’ll force it to do a full power down rather than suspending.
Wake on LAN is my ideal yes & would be perfect for this application. If only suspend werent broken. It's fantastically easy to setup in systems-networkd, a one line WakeOnLan=magic in your .link file. Easy as that for my laptop! https://wiki.archlinux.org/title/Wake-on-LAN#systemd.link
Check your bios settings.
Also, you can probably just strap a wifi-capable relay to power pins on your motherboard.
That's a lot more work than just buying a different KVM that already exposes its spare GPIO pins for exactly that purpose. There are plenty of options that come bundled with the necessary cables and adapters to connect the KVM to the motherboard headers while leaving the existing power/reset buttons usable.