(I work there.)
Scaleway costs approximately 51 % less, looking at on-demand postgresql instance with 8 GB RAM (db.t3.large vs. db-dev-l).
https://aws.amazon.com/rds/postgresql/pricing/?pg=pr&loc=3
https://www.scaleway.com/en/pricing/managed-databases/#cost-...
The blue/green deploys, auto snapshotting, failover, upgrades, few-click resizing, etc justify the price vs running database servers (for me). I spend a lot of time looking for money in aws and never consider replacing RDS with anything else.
This is how their market power was built - with FUD, lies and tricks. Theyve now gotten to the point where theyre comfortable enough with this market power that they can lean on it while pursuing a strategy of developer wage compression.
But sure, if you're just renting ec2 resources and rearchitecturing is not feasible, AWS is probably a bad idea.