Not sure why people would think Teslas (excluding Cyber Truck) are ugly or pompous
Now that EVs are more mainstream, there is already competition from new VW, Kia, Hyundai, Renault, Volvo, BMW, which makes Model 3 kinda bland, and the more popular Model Y looks like Model 3's CAD design stretched vertically by 20%.
Supercharger network doesn't have a significant advantage in Europe, all new cars use the same connector already, so buying a Tesla is a choice. People question why do you buy a car that isn't pretty, isn't cheap, isn't from a "real" car brand, and is associated with Musk's antics.