Silicon Valley has no concept of willful consent.
... even then, I question if the rhetoric matches the reality. Many users of Mastodon, for instance, will decry the harvesting of data or creation of search engines, then run what is essentially an open relay of every post their users create to any other node that purports to be a legit Mastodon instance. The organic growth goal conflicts with the data-control goal.
When your technology's operation doesn't match the rhetoric, which is it?