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The woman who I thought was "best" that I was wildly in love with a few months later cheated on me. I've never really fully recovered from the ordeal.

That said, as I've entered my 30s things seem more strategic. I want love more than ever and after re-locating to the SF Bay Area women seem more sparse than ever.

Idk if modern women in america "stick around" anymore.

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It's online dating. Most of the women in the pool are either using it out of boredom or are dating non-monogamously, and that doesn't work out for most guys.

I think a lot of women use it as a hookup app but women often take their time and are more cautious when trying to hook up.

Women who aren't just looking for a hook-up often filter out because they meet a lot of guys who just want that.

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