A fraction of people who voted for Trump thought he would be like Trump 1.0 and just wanted to stop the woke drift of the democrats and/or didn't feel represented by a non-white+woman president.
We can debate how small that fraction is but it likely affected the election results.
I don't think the average conservative grandma is really in favour of the chaos that Elon is unleashing.
The only reasons they voted for Trump is that they thought they were against total debauchery of the left and the trans activism and whatnot.
If that grandma could choose between an old school conservative and these clowns she will choose the old school conservatives.
Yes it's a winner take all system, yes that's how it works. But don't use that to justify that whatever the winner does is what all people actually wanted because it's just not true.