But I know how to solve this. Someone needs to become the defacto wireless network that focuses on the network (reliability, bandwidth) and doesn't deal with consumers. Instead they resell to companies who deal with consumers.
Wonder if I could do a KS campaign...
There are resellers that focus on data, however...Clear is one. They aren't great (they share the Sprint Network, which is very bad in some places, and fair to middling in most), and they reportedly throttle some high usage customers (I've not run into this, though the times when I've needed a lot of data, Clear couldn't provide it anyway, even without throttling), but they don't regulate what you run on the network. All my devices, including phone, connect through it when I'm on the road.
If what you're implying is that you believe in the ability of the free market to solve the problem, then first we would need free the wireless phone market.
It doesn't, but simple economics will prevent the price going up on all data plans as much as Verizon was charging for tethering.