For example, what you know might not provide the cost benefit ratio your client would. Or the performance. If you only know Cloud Spanner but now there is a need for a small relational table? These maxims have obvious limitations.
I do agree that the client doesn't care about the tech stack. Or that seeking a golden standard is a McGuffin. But it does much deeper than that. Maybe a great solution will be a mix of OCaml, Lua, Python, Perl, low latency and batches.
A good engineer balances tradeoffs and solves problems in a satisfying way sufficing all requirements. That can be MySQL and Node. But it can also be C++ and Oracle Coherence. Shying away from a tool just because it has a reputation is just as silly as using it for a hype.