I get the same feeing when I first looked at the LangChain documentation when I wanted to first start tinkering with LLM apps.

I built my own TypeScript AI platform https://typedai.dev with an extensive feature list where I've kept iterating on what I find the most ergonomic way to develop, using standard constructs as much as possible. I've coded enough Java streams, RxJS chains, and JavaScript callbacks and Promise chains to know what kind of code I like to read and debug.

I was having a peek at xstate but after I came across https://docs.dbos.dev/ here recently I'm pretty sure that's that path I'll go down for durable execution to keep building everything with a simple programming model.