RIP Sally Ride. She was a personal inspiration as a child because I saw a woman going into space as an indication of the opening up of space to 'normal' people. She was also a scientist and not a military person.
This is one area where the Soviets had us beat:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_female_astronauts
To this day the Russians still have a superstition that flying with a woman is bad luck, and many of them refuse to fly with one.