This feels like the beginning of a "no true scotsman" fallacy. The question is not what a "good leader" does, the question is what this person's experience will be with the people they actually encounter.
You can have the right skills and competency and mindset and disposition but will be looked over because you don’t fit the norm.
Wait, you feel like you face structural oppression as a white man in tech?
Could you explain what challenges you face as a result of your gender identity and race?
> "they would rather hire literally anyone else if they can add some much desired "diversity""
He feels like his applications are automatically deprioritized in favor of minorities.
I'd be interested to see data that suggests otherwise.