Also, the beam is a bit divergent, even if it vibrates the beam could still cover the sensor.
Loss of signal -> silence -> no vibrations -> signal resumption.
Also, if you bounce the signal off a mirror on the wall like DIY Perks did, then walls vibrating even a little bit will be an issue if the beam is narrow enough.
I like the example audio file they have for the article, because the QSO ends with "73, bye bye" and that bounces off the moon and is received by the sender a little bit later. The moon is far away!
(I also really enjoy the distortion to SSB signals that you get by tuning the "carrier" frequency slightly wrong; more likely in this case because the moon changes the frequency of the reflected signal due to the doppler effect. Also happens with satellite comms, though you might not notice if you're using FM and not SSB.)
I don't know what you are on about. You can go to your local walmart and get IR headphones off the shelf that work exactly this way.