Or if you have older family members you care about. Or if you don't want your children having to practice 'active shooter' drills during their school days.
That's certainly not the norm. Where, more specifically?
We bought a place 2 years ago and are in the process of fixing up (it was used as a vacation home).
Have you considered Canada?
I don't think there is a single right place for everyone. Each person needs to do their own checklist of requirements.