The worse problem with this industry is that we have conditioned people to think they need to do side projects outside of working 40 hours a week.
When I get off work, I shut down my computer and live my life.
“Life” was a part time fitness instructor that was more of a hobby than a job, running races with friends, hanging out, etc until I was 35 and then married (still married) and spending time with my wife and (step)kids until the youngest one graduated in 2020 and doing a lot of traveling with my wife post Covid including doing the “digital nomad” thing for a year.
I’ve been in this industry professionally since 1996 across now 10 jobs. I have only done any coding outside of work for 3 months and that was in 2008 and only because I had stayed at my second job for 9 years and I had become an expert beginner.
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I will volunteer to work on projects that give me exposure to new to me technology. If that isn’t available, it’s time to change jobs.
I started my career programming in C across mainframes, PCs, and ruggedized Windows CE devices for the first 15 years, and working in strategic cloud consulting for the last 6 including 3 working directly at BigTech.