The brittleness is what gets me. In physical mechanical and even analog electrical systems there are tolerances. Things can almost-work and still work for varying degrees of work. Software on the other hand is unbelievably brittle to the point that after 50 years of software engineering we still really can't re-use or properly modularize code. We are still stuck in "throw it away and do it over" and constantly reinventing wheels because there is no way to make wheels fit. The nature of digital means there are no tolerances. The concept isn't even valid. Things fit 100% or 0%.
We keep inventing languages. They don't help. We keep inventing frameworks. They don't help. We keep trying "design patterns" and "methodologies." They don't help. If anything all the stuff we invent makes the problem worse. Now we have an ecosystem with 20 different languages, 50 different runtimes, and 30 variants of 5 OSes. Complexity goes up, costs go up, reusability never happens, etc.
I remember for a while seeing things like the JVM and CLR (the VM for C# and friends) as a way out-- get away from the brittle C API and fully compiled static native code and into a runtime environment that allowed really solid error handling and introspection. But that paradigm never caught on for whatever reason, probably because it wasn't free enough. WASM is maybe promising.