I think it's an oversimplification to say SPMD is a better model full stop. Array programming has the advantage that the implementer optimizes a specific function, and its interaction with the rest of the program is much simpler: all the data is available at the start, and the result can be produced in any order. So things like multi-pass algorithms and temporary lookup tables are possible, particularly valuable if the program isn't spending that much time on arithmetic but rather "heavy" searching and sorting operations. Not that I claim NumPy or CuPy do a good job of this. Sections "Fusion versus fission" and "Dynamic versus static" are relevant here, I think: https://mlochbaum.github.io/BQN/implementation/versusc.html#...
There's also a subset - possibly even a silent majority - of problems where you're doing fairly intensive calculation on data that fairly comfortably fits into a modern CPU cache. For those, I'd still expect SIMD to be a great choice from a performance perspective.
I don't really think of it as a "losing" performance problem. It's all about tradeoffs. SIMD tooling often offers an easier programming model than SPMD tooling, and spending an extra 60 minutes of development time to save myself 60 seconds of run time is generally not a worthwhile trade in my problem space. Especially if I also need to run it on more expensive compute instances to realize that speedup.
If someone says "this isn't really high performance" and you say "I don't personally care, my stuff is small and doesn't take long time to run" that isn't a coherent reply.
I find it to be much less coherent, nearly to the point of knocking down straw men, when people get lost in arguing semantics over a term that we should all know by now is perennially ill-defined.
High performance means you show that its speed is competitive against the other fastest programming methods.
You labeling something "high performance" because you wrote something slow and made it faster has nothing to do with releasing something and calling it "high performance" publicly.