Practical Engineering had a video on the subject not too long ago: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7G4ipM2qjfw
The short answer is: it's for load balancing, it can't be avoided.
The short answer is: it's for load balancing, it can't be avoided.
The way it works today for common residential grid-ties is this:
1. Is grid up? Y/N
2. If Y, then supply excess locally-generated power to grid. (Someone will implicitly use it.)
3. If N, then turn off connection to grid. (Nobody's home and we don't want to hurt anybody.)
Here in Germany this works by specialised devices called "Funkrundsteuerempfänger" (rough translation: radio controlled receiver, according to Wikipedia[0] it's "radio teleswitch")
If they add up to a percent or two of the local grid, then control is not necessary.
Also you could design a solar system to not backfeed.