It'd be much simpler to put together a custom protocol to communicate between the client and server. You could use Erlang's External Term Format to exchange data if you want, in which case you'd want to do binary_to_term(Binary, [safe]) to prevent creation of new atoms and new function references which can fill up tables and also consider that just because deserializing is safe for the runtime doesn't mean you can trust the client.
Erlang makes it pretty easy to parse sensible things off of network sockets, if you want to go more custom, too. Binary pattern matching is lovely.
[1] https://erlangforums.com/t/rfc-erlang-dist-security-filterin...
Additional applications for dist have been explored over the years, but most of them involve clustering servers; where a security barrier isn't necessary; although it might be desirable --- I've used dist clusters where some people had access to only certain types of nodes; bypassing access control using dist clustering was certainly a possibility. Bolting security onto something designed without it often is pretty challenging. Especially if you want to keep all the existing applications working.
For example, several of the gRPC libs I've used for Erlang/Elixir are pretty low-cognitive-overhead to use, and they come with all the added gRPC goodies: RPC semantics are described in one place rather than ad-hoc throughout code, protobufs have at least a documented (if not actually good) process for upgrades and backwards compatibility, multilanguage gets easier (even if your second language is just a tiny sliver of "dump protobufs into a database/Jupyter notebook/Rust program occasionally for offline reporting").
To be clear, this isn't a paean to gRPC; most of those features are table stakes for an IDL-driven protocol definition. Just saying that you do get some things in return for giving up the convenience of OTP, if you pick the right tools.