Been a while since I was in the digital signage space but a lot of the equipment runs of the shelf RK3288 plugged into commercial displays. 2GB of RAM was pretty common. IIRC's though LG's WebOS TV's have minimum 2GB of RAM in the digital signage space directly built into the units themselves. I believe Samsung Tizen based units has similar RAM.
My router has 1GB of RAM in it. But even my cheapest routers have 128 to 256 MB of RAM. The Cisco 9300 Catalyst switches have about 8 GB of RAM, but switches with beefy amounts of RAM are getting pretty common now, even if somewhat pricey.
Yeah there's massive swathes of embedded space that's tiny. But the higher end stuff isn't exactly out of reach anymore. The RK3288's IIRC ran about $20 a unit at the time before I left the industry.