After having a kid Ive wondered how all these sleep disruption means you'll die studies could actually be true. You'd think evolution would have taken care of it at some point
Evolution can't select for anything that happens significantly past the birth of your progeny.
A second child would help with that too.
Additionally, even if you were looking to predict selection many generations in the future; modern reproduction happens at higher rates the lower in economic disparity you go, so clearly that isn’t the case.
The point is that there many valuable things that parents can pass on after the birth of their children that will increase their chances of success in future generations.