I personally find the idea of having kids to feel some sort of fulfillment or anti depressant to be abhorrent. I feel perfectly satisfied without children, and if I didn’t, would hate to put that on them.
What you're saying is, there is no morally defensible reason to have kids, and the human species should just seize to exist for this reason
The point seems to be that it’s extremely risky. Your decision to have kids outweighs, in the long run, most any other moral decision you make.