Every single author who calls gravity not a force, just hand waves right past this: why should the particle move at all?
Sure if the particle is moving it will follow a curved path thinking the path is straight.
But if the particle just sits there, okay the path is curved, but it just sits there.
I've heard explanations having to do with the fact that particles move through time, that doesn't really answer the question because it can continue moving through time while just sitting there.
"in the absence of being pushed or pulled, test particles in a curved spacetime will free fall"
Really? Why exactly will they free fall? Why can't they just stay exactly where they are?
I've also never heard anyone explain what the issue is with calling gravity a force. One person said it can't be a force because it makes light move, and light is massless.
However gravity does not act on mass it acts on energy, and mass is just a form of energy. Since photons have energy obviously they gravitate.