Does anyone have suggestions for the smallest physical device that can function as a WireGuard server or a Tailscale exit node with decent performance?
For less than $200 you can get a used one with 16GB of RAM and a fast SSD.
For home servers I want low power usage and reliability. Mine idle at 5W running proxmox.
My primary home router is a pfSense VM set up as a Wireguard peer for tunneling in from various other devices and locations, and I'm very happy with it.
A table of devices and wg speeds can be found here https://forum.openwrt.org/t/a-wireguard-comparison-db/187586. There are plenty of interesting tiny options, particularly if you don't need a full gig.