It’s a systemic problem. You’re going to loose the battle against human nature: Ever noticed how, after moving from a college dorm into a house, people suddenly manage to fill all the space with things? It’s not like the dorm was enough to fit everything they ever needed, but they had to accommodate themselves to it. This constraint is artificial, exhausting to keep up, and, if gone, will no longer be adhered to.
If a computer suddenly becomes more powerful, developers aren’t going to keep up their good habits performance optimisation, because they had those only out of necessity in the first place.
I agree with this statement for normal people. Not for software developers. You're just begging for stagnation. Your job is literally dealing with computers and making them do neat stuff. When you refuse to do that because "computers should be making my life easier" you should really find another line of employment where you're a consumer of software, not a producer.