That’s a bizarre hill to die on, I see all kinds of larger people survive into their 90s when I was living near and volunteering at a nursing home as a teenager
So dangerous to extrapolate from anecdotal observation like this. If I see old people smoking, doesn't mean smoking is safe. It just means it doesn't kill at 100% effectiveness.
If you wait long enough, everything has a 100% effectiveness.
People tend to over-estimate the impact of both smoking and obesity.
Depending on your priors, This may be a lot or not