For an unhealthy length of time (definitely since c. 2009 and arguably since the 90s) anyone with economically interesting skills was better of emigrating to the US, and many of these "best and brightest" did. I think the ceiling where you're better off in the US (or a few other Western states) is getting lower and lower, especially since the last few years have starkly shown just how unwilling and resistant to change the central european populace truly is. Right now you can still leave without huge exit taxes (unless you happen to own a company, most don't). I'm guessing as the brain drain keeps picking up pace, we'll see hefty exit taxes targeting basically everyone starting in 5-10 years.... after all, when people leave, they won't be able to pay 70% (~50% taxes and mandatory insurance, 30-40% rent or a mortgage, whose principal directly went to some old dude) of their income into your young-to-old wealth transfer system where they don't get anything out. So when they wanna leave you, you gotta make them pay dearly!
Abusive relationship? Not at all!