Look, all I can do is respond to the words as actually written. Someone made a claim and I countered it. Now you appear to be simultaneously complaining that I'm responding to exact quoted text (which I "slapped together" by directly quoting?) and also that I'm somehow also
not responding to you because after my direct response to the words you wrote, I tried to re-focus the discussion on the original claim? I didn't
skip actually responding to you, I
did respond to you (50/infinity = 0); you just didn't like my response.
My takeaway for you is this: we're talking about mathematical proof techniques, and what you can conclude from the four different situations below. The soundness of a mathematical proof is independent of whether you're a frequentist or not, which is why I brushed off that comment. The particular measure you choose doesn't really matter either. It might matter whether you accept the axiom of choice or not, but I'm the only one who's brought that up so far. It's important because mathematical proofs are very finicky on exact details, and bubblyworld's statement is exactly the kind of pernicious little detail that can trick you into thinking a proof is correct when it's not. That matters!
The main free variable here is exactly what "probability" means in terms of how you're "picking" possible objects. Yes, there are some cases where showing that an object exists with "positive probability" (and almost certainly a subset having "positive measure") means that one example must actually exist, but if that's the case, the jump from "positive measure" to "must exist" is actually tautological! That is, your proof doesn't need that step; the act of showing "positive measure" has already proven the existence. The very fact that a mathematical pillar like Erdős was relying on such a step means that it was necessary for his proof. His proofs didn't have random tautological steps in them. We are not talking about the proof technique of "if a subset of X has a thing in it, then X must have a thing in it" -- that's literally tautological.
So what does "probability" really mean here? bubblyworld gave a link to examples of what he's talking about (see [1], Example 2), and seemed to misunderstand the proof. It's structured like this: "Let n be very large and consider a random graph G on n vertices ... we show that with positive probability, G satisfies two properties." Let me ask: how are we mathematically certain there exists a graph G that satisfies the two properties? (And we are; the proof is correct.) Which of the 4 situations are we in below? bubblyworld's insistence on finite sets makes it sound like we're in #3: finite set, nonzero probability. And indeed the set of random graphs with n vertices is finite! But that is an important mistake. We are not relying on argument #3 below. Yes, the set of random graphs with n vertices is finite, but we have NOT proven that any specific G has our two properties, and we have NOT proven that any graph with n vertices has those two properties! It's entirely possible that NO graphs with n vertices have the two properties; all we've shown is that every graph in a finite set has some positive probability to have our properties.
You might encounter a similar proof, exactly the same up to this point, and that proof might be wrong! If you believe bubblyworld, you could make this mistake. So why does Erdős's proof work? It relies on two things that are both necessary: (1) we're not talking about a finite set at all! We're talking about random subgraphs of size n OR LARGER. We're actually picking from an infinite set here. Our smallest example might be of size 10^10^10^n! We don't know! We just know that if we keep going, eventually we must hit one. And, critically, (2) there is a positive lower bound on the probability, above some n (it's 1/2). That is, if the probability of a random subgraph having those two properties was some small nonzero probability that decreased as n increased, e.g. p ~ 1/n^2, then we still might never find an example! The proof could be incorrect! But it's shown that above some n, the probability is at least 1/2. Thus the whole proof works.
Any discussion about frequentism or Lebesgue measure is missing the point: we're talking about whether proofs are correct or not, and that is a very finicky, tricky discussion. bubblyworld's original statement, and his continued refinements of that statement, are incorrect, and believing such things can lead you to accept incorrect proofs. I think that matters. So I corrected it.
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Probabilistic_method
1. Infinite set, nonzero probability: we know at least one example must exist.
2. Infinite set, zero probability: not sure! It could be zero, or any subset of smaller cardinality or measure zero.
3. Finite set, nonzero probability: not sure! It could be zero! My coin flip example shows this.
4. Finite set, zero probability: we know no examples can exist.