People who do weight training always leave out the fact that you feel sore after a lift. Even the next day.
This can feel like pain to the unaware and can be scary or off putting enough to become a deterrent to keep at it.
It can leave you feeling weak, but often the soreness is surface level and in fact you are still stronger even with the soreness and fatigue.
> (other than the steady increase in weight you're able to lift)
“Steady” is doing a lot of heavy lifting here.
Maybe you could argue that in the beginning, but adding more and more weight is more logarithmic than linear; otherwise, everyone in the gym would be benching 3 tons.
I recommend ramping up weight after you can do a full 3 sets of 10 reps at your current weight.
Introducing the new weight to the first set, then dropping the weight for the next two.
Once comfortable with that try the new weight for 2 sets and then finally 3; then repeat.