Yeah, no superpower would ever be bothered by another superpower wanting to put bases and missiles next to them....
And Ukraine's NATO membership application was rejected, by NATO, 16 years ago.
Your analogy holds no water whatsoever.
Bullshit. Finland joined NATO and if anything Russia pulled out their military presence near the border.
Even Putin himself debunked the nonsense tall tale about NATO expansion. Are we expected to keep pretending this is a concern?