If not, turn off "Power Nap" (https://support.apple.com/en-ie/guide/mac-help/mh40774/mac - the option is, annoyingly, kinda hidden.)
(like switching the scroll direction between touchpad and mouse, where you have two separate toggles which toggle each other. "Just works" my ass)
At the end of the day, I don't think us dev types and power users are the core audience for Apple =/ We're just a niche. But at least once you have it all set up, it mostly keeps working after that.
I just hope they don't lock down macOS like iOS and iPadOS altogether. Presumably they'd always need a machine like that if only to develop for iOS and iPadOS and such... fingers crossed.
It's definitely an "enjoy it while it lasts" mindset for me though, like everything in tech.