While the servers going dark might be annoying, you still have access to your cars hardware, giving various attack vectors in making your car "go" again.
- CAN protocol between components is relatively straightforward to reverse engineer, and on a fundamental level all modern EVs work "the same"
- you/someone can put a new circuit board into the remote-disabling component and tell the rest of the car "everything is fine, please drive"
- depending on how much the OEM has invested in preventing this, it might get harder, but it will always be possible (last resort, swap to new brainboard)
So, all that said, this is of course a worry for the consumer (liability as well when modifying the car of course), but if you control the hardware and enough other people have the same car as you I believe they will be reverse-engineerable.
You can check my submissions, I am making a video series about how modern EVs work, also check out openinverter.org community.
One more anecdote: Fisker Ocean was in a similar place recently and I started looking at their owner groups to see if there would be a business case for me to get more involved, but I haven't pursued it further.
So in the same way that "life will always find a way" in Jurassic Park, I think if you bought something that enough other people have bought, someone will hack it/share a solution (albeit voiding the warranty in the process).