The industry response to this seems to be "DevSecOps," where the only real "Sec" is reactionary monitoring. Monitoring doesn't keep incidents from happening. It only raises internal awareness.
This is the best that most separate security teams do, too.
In all fairness, the "DevOps" part of things can manage deploys in ways to minimize exposure. But most teams that I've seen revert to manual "process" whenever something unusual occurs, so forget about the ideal automated responses to problems we were promised when we were trying to automate sysadmins out of their jobs. There are several layers of broken here that we're not allowed to talk about.