I am not sure either to know or understand what kids want. We are slowly getting into the "you're boring and don't understand me" phase.

I would like him to build things and start developing a bit of discipline and willpower before adding games and consoles to the mix.

Video games are super great. But without willpower and discipline, they can become a bit too addictive.

There is maybe a line between "enjoying what I've built" and "enjoying what other have built". Having a bit of both should be great.