All that is completely irrelevant, you're overcomplicating it. Each person has 1 of 2 states, connected or not. If 4 are connected, 2 aren't, if 4 aren't 2 are, etc.
The crucial property here is the symmetry between connected and disconnected edges: for any given configuration, if it's difficult to check it on one hand, then it should be easy to do it on the other.