And yes -- I think to some extent my determination to push myself not to accept guilt for things that aren't my fault comes from realising that guilt for imagined misdeeds is the most potent fuel for OCD, which has wrecked the pattern of my life; it is a thief of joy.
When I explained one of my OCD obsessions/compulsions to a friend, they said "I can understand why that affected you but you understand it is literally absurd to have guilt from that?", and it was one of the most empowering things I've ever heard.
Guilt is a burden that good people willingly shoulder and bad people willingly shirk (if they are capable of it at all).
Internalising that there are more productive negative emotions to feel than unearned, secondhand guilt is a life's work for me.