Noble titles are a poor comparison since they're the rare example where there actually is an exclusively-male root form. For most words the root form is neuter, and both male-only (if it exists) and female-only forms require an affix.

Properly, a male lich is "werlich" and a female lich is "wiflich" (unlike other words the /f/ sound is not likely to disappear); the plurals add "-en". But generally sex is irrelevant for undead{cn} so the neuter form by far predominates.

"lichess" is an abominable mixture of German and French roots ... so naturally it is indistinguishable from the rest of English.