Def not on par with smoking.
Also red meat doesn't cause addiction. I don't feel like I crave red meat if I've just been eating chicken and fish for the whole week.
Though as far as is practicable [0], one should not drink alcohol. No amount is safe or good enough for you to offset the other risks.
[0] life is short and not all social offers of a drink should necessarily be turned down, unless you're willing to figuratively or literally show the trappings of "one who must not" (pregnant, alcoholic, religion, training for sports, on medication, etc.)
- https://www.mayoclinic.org/healthy-lifestyle/nutrition-and-h...
- https://www.who.int/azerbaijan/news/item/04-01-2023-no-level...
There are of course also counter-programming, like "Surprising Ways Alcohol May Be Good for You" (https://www.webmd.com/diet/ss/slideshow-alcohol-health-benef...).
The webmd article is especially pernicious because the “positives” probably resonate with many (most?) people and gives people an “out” to optimize for the moment rather than their health. Webmd should do better.
A diet rich in proteins provided by grilled chicken breast and salmon, and low in simple carbs such as sugar, pasta, and rice, will dramatically reduce your risks for the most prevalent diseases and not increase your risk of cancer.
You need to take a moderate and wholistic view of health.