You missed the part where OS X diverged A LOT from NeXTStep in the years that followed.
1996's NeXTStep running on x86 and 2001's OS X running on x86 is a different beast altogether.
You seem to think OS X is just NeXTStep with a new theme -- actually it had lots of changes and hell of a lot of frameworks that didn't exist in NeXTStep.
From simple stuff (the window compositing manager, wasn't in NeXTStep, the Dock wasn't in NeXTStep, etc) to heavy additions: Carbon wasn't in NeXTStep, and it was absolutely crucial to OS X at the time, for easy porting of apps from OS 9.