So, gender equality is seen as a moral right and is required by law in some countries, while the same is seen as a sin and is forbidden by law in others.
If you are 6'5 heigh equality could mean that smaller people sit or stand in front of you.
For woman it doesn't mean they have to go to military but could.
Allowing woman or enabling them to do 'men' things doesn't mean they have to do the exact thing as men. Like carrying the same weight.
I'm not dismissive about woman in military at all but I'm also not in a country like Israel were it is common to have woman.