I guess you also think it's bonkers that car makers are required to put seatbelts in their cars.
if i buy an apple phone that requires a 9000$ magic charger that's on me
etc
I mean, do we really need to enumerate the reasons for you? Next you will think it's okay for someone to manufacture a car that can't be opened when the 12V battery dies.
To address your main point, in theory at least, as a society, we should be able to tell government that something is not cool and address it as needed. The good news for Apple and most oligopolies now is that neither society or government can agree on.. anything really.
I believe what you describe is called democracy. The counterpart of which, where everyone "agreees" is totalitarian.