How many people do you know who have left to "find themselves", and how many people do you know who have "found themselves"?

Everyone has an unhappiness inside them -- and they act it out in different ways. Some people strive for more zeroes at the end of their bank account. Some people search for love. Some people try to escape through drugs.

The commonality to all this is that you can't fix that unhappiness via something to be found or something to be avoided.