Yes, the US decided and it was easy to lure thousands of Ukrainians to the Maidan uprising. 10 years ago no Ukranian would think that ditching Russian influence in favor of the West would end so bad, right? Now it is time for them to come to their senses and stop throwing themselves to a meat grind. The dream of beating a nuclear power is too far from reality for them and the earlier the civilians understand that, the better. That's a war they should never ever being convinced they could win. Even if they could win now they already lost so much.
It is still time to think if this is enough or if Ukraine wants to gamble their whole existence and continue waging a war they can't win.
Btw there was no mention of neonazis yet but it seems like supporting nazis is something that bothers you? It is still time to stop.