Kinda like how people complain in an office "Can we turn down the thermostat? You can put on a coat but I can't take my skin off".
But fresh water is a pretty huge concern as well and moving/producing large amounts of that in extremely hot areas is going to more than offset the difference in heating costs
A problem in cities is that aircos increase outdoor temps, on top of heat from pavement, cars, etc.
Heat is even a side effect of cooling, heat is a side effect of basically everything
Then again the difference between lethal cold temperatures and comfortable temperatures is also much much bigger than lethal hot temperatures and comfortable temperatures too. EG humans can be pretty comfortable between 32F and 80-90F. The upper limit is pretty much 110F, so only a 20F difference. There's not really any sort of clothing short of some kind of spacesuit with a personal cooling device that can make those temperatures survivable.
Humans can tolerate ridiculously cold temperatures with adequate clothing layers. With clothing you can buy at Walmart you can be pretty comfortable at -40F. With specialized equipment there's basically no limit to how cold the surroundings can be
Not so much with ridiculously hot. Being too hot is just a more complex problem to solve
I was curious about the stats here:
The latest numbers I can find indicate that the annual US 50-state heating-to-comfort requirement is about 2.5x the cooling-to-comfort requirement. Measured in BTUs.
However: a) These numbers do not account for HVAC energy efficiency (much higher for heating than cooling -- maybe ~90% heat, ~50% cool, so that 2.5x would be closer to 1.5x today) b) Due to warming trends, these numbers have been changing. Was ~3x in 1990, trendlines look like they might converge by the end of the century. With efficiency considered, convergence in about 25 years.
Some obvious unaccounted factors: a) Changes in HVAC fuel or efficiency mix, e.g. heat pumps b) Changes in climate trends c) Migration patterns (more people headed to TX/AZ than AK)
For efficiency it only matter what the delta-T with the outside environment is. Since that is typically lower when cooling than when heating, it is therefore cheaper. Just look at your power bill.
Most buildings where I live don't have heat pumps
People rail against those living in the desert because there's often no water and the water needed to sustain a growing metropolis just isn't available without spending a ton of money and diverting it away from other population centers. Most cold places do have access to water in much larger quantities. (Most, but certainly not all)
Honestly we should all just live in San Diego, where it's never below 65 and never above 85. Perfect weather.
Unlike Arizona, I don't ever see backlash about people living in Mississippi.
The imperial valley - a single farming region in a literal (rather than metaphorical - LA isn't a desert) California desert - uses enough water from the Colorado river to account for 100% of residential water use in California.