That said, and I'd like pushback to this idea, isn't the fat kind of what you want? Wordpress is popular because you can rely on a whole bunch of stuff being there from the get-go, stuff you don't even have to think about. We want it because, being somewhat blunt here, it's pretty idiot-proof. I'm sure a lot of experienced Wordpress devs might read this and think "Oh no, but that's not necessary, it's not even desirable a lot of the time!" to which I say, sorry, you are not the average developer, you don't matter much.
The average Wordpress developer doesn't understand Wordpress. They started using it because it's a cheap and fast way of making a website that you can sell to a client. Yes you can do a LOT of stuff with it, you can go headless, you can customize it a whole lot, hell the whole thing is open source, you could turn it into a communal music player if you want to, but know this: less than 1% of WP sites use ACF, this is just not what people are doing.
At the end of the day, devs literally don't know any better.