A glass of wine is harmless. A bottle of hard spirit will poison and potentially kill you.
Your body can nullify small amounts of alcohol. But if you drink more toxin than what your body can neutralize it poisons you.
Sugar and carbs rise glucose level in your blood. When it's small amount your blood will re-distribute it to cells as fuel.
But if you eat enough sugar and carbs that your body cannot absorb all the glucose, you become fat and develop diabetes.
So yeah, sugar is fuel and tastes good but in modern food products it's used everywhere which makes moderate use very hard to achieve.
That's why 99 million of Americans are overweight, 70 million are obese.
29 million have diagnosed diabetes, 10 million estimated undiagnosed diabetes and 115 million pre-diabetes.