You'd be better of installing a new circuit with proper equiptment. Most homes would be able to at least accommodate a 20amp 220v socket, which takes about 40% of the charging time of a regular socket (15amp 110).
This (multi-path circuits) is not uncommon when homeowners try to wire up a smart switch requiring a neutral to a switch-circuit without a neutral (as most light switches actually only need to switch the hot) and so they "borrow" a convenient neutral from a neighboring circuit which causes it to immediately trip!
Turn the breaker off and plug something in and see if it turns on
The Y extension lead would work, except that if either outlet has line and neutral swapped, you have a dead short, and if you pull one of the male ends while charging, you have a live male prong.
Quick 220 mostly resolves this, but you still need a 3 lamp tester, IIRC.
A certified electrician will know how to cable up a higher-capacity appliance such as an electric oven or level 2 home EV charger.
Darwin Awards don't just win themselves, you have to be creative about it, right?
My partner and I did it in less than a day in conduit in our garage. No jury rigging necessary.
I hired an electrician to come out and install the 240V 50A circuit. I'm sure I could've, but our local code requires it, I don't want our insurer to deny our claim if something goes wrong. I, obviously, think people should be pretty careful with 10kW (or more) continuous load for hours at a time.
I definitely don't think people should lean on janky solutions that are technically feasible when it comes to EV power.
i've got 240V 40A and I trickle charge at at most 10A overnight, and it's way way beyond adequate. i don't drive super far daily...but easily could still.
But as I mentioned in my comment way above, 120V12A works, but 240V32A is notably more convenient.