This is why on consumer land you are pretty much always buying your memory as a kit (of 2 modules with DDR5). And if you want more you buy a bigger kit and sell your old ones or throw them in the trash.
On server side the memory controller on the CPU is much more beefy and the motherboard better built to allow for more memory sticks to run at full speeds. But even then you usually have to go and find memory that the OEM qualified/teste for you.