Don’t go to the US and go to a more welcoming country instead.
It’s true that Five Eyes countries are in general not very welcoming but the US is certainly the most unpleasant to enter.
Of course, you can physically restrain yourself from going to X or Y unpleasant major country, but go ahead and tell someone rushing urgently to such a country for the funeral or medical emergency of a family member, or a serious financial emergency, that they can just "choose not to go" as if it were a case of choosing what toilet paper to buy.